My husband is a good man, but I have never been this lonely ever since I wa born, for 3 years we are married, all we do is go to work and come back, then watch tv and sleep! Some times we have sex, sometimes we just sleep!
His family is a good family, and he is a good man I won’t lie, but I still feel lonely,
Some times I will talk to him he will chat and then we will have nothing to say, I thought it will stop after we got married but it’s been 3 years now and it’s still same!
Let me add that he is a doctor, and his work is exhausting, while am a makeup artist,
It was the time I made the mother up, that she hooked us up and we got married, we didn’t really date like that, and it was long distance cos he is based in Uyo and I live in Lagos then,
So I had to relocate to Uyo, I knew no one there and he is always busy, and all…. most times he is out for 2 days without coming home, but he makes sure I never lack anything, he is always concerned texting me and telling me he needs to work hard for now,
Most times he will come home and read books the whole night and I will be on my nighties in bed looking at him,
He is always quick with the sex and all,
I think his mother got him married cos he is too busy with his life and now I am the one suffering it! I told my mom all these and she told me that I should understand my husband and make my marriage work! 😩
Even on my birthday, after we went out for dinner he still left me and went to work!
I started talking to his friend about this, and he said “Sam is a workerholic” that he can never reject work and that’s why he is paid more than anyone…
I got addicted to porn during this period, plus did I mention my husband said we should wait for now and not have kids?
So he is careful and knows when to withdraw, plus he has mastered my fertile days and all….
All I do is watch porn and satisfy myself, I watched porn for awhile but the loneliness is too much, so there is this his friend that comes around a lot, one of the days he came, I was actually the one that made the move and he fell for it and we had sex, I was so ashamed of myself and didn’t talk to him for months, I always disappear whenever he is around…
Now, my husband traveled for a course in India since last year September, to be honest I didn’t plan dating Laurance, but it’s not my fault, I had no choice again, that was how I started dating him and we started having sex and all…..
Blossom, I am so in love with this guy, and I want to leave my marriage cos am tired of these whole drama back and forth,
My husband is coming back next month and I want to leave the house before he comes back and go back to Lagos,
We didn’t do a court wedding so all he has to do is return my dowry!!
Laurance is actually scared but he is willing to support me and has promised he will stand by me irrespective, but we won’t make our relationship known till after one year when he must have moved on…..
anyone is allowed to judge me, but I just want to hear what the community will say!
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